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  • What is backbiting. 

  • Gossiping and backbiting. 

  • Who is Backbiting person 

  • Backbiting is a sin. 

  • Effects or disadvantages of backbiting 

  • Cause of gossip.

  • How does gossip affects society

  • Why do humans likes to gossip.

  • Ignore the backbiting at workplace


"Backbiting is the action of slandering a person without that person's knowledge to say something to him/her that he/she does not contain" .It is a malicious talk about someone (spiteful things about a person) who is not present at that moment to bite them behind their back. 


  • It referred to an unsporting attack from the rear in the blood sport of bear-baiting.

  • It is a pieces of information or a story that has not been verified.


Gossiping and backbiting:


Backbiting is damaging the good reputation of someone while gossip is to talk about someone else's private or personal business, especially in a way that spreads the information.


  • gossips can stave off loneliness, it can facilitate bonding and closeness and serve as a form of entertainment

  • Such things could destroy their professional reputations - and potentially their marriages


Backbiting person:


Backbiting person attract the time by backbiting and fascinating against each other in a foolish kind of way. It can alienate friends ruin reputations, and even lead to ostracizing behavior and other forms of relational aggression.

  • Give much more time to the improvement of  yourself so you have no time to criticize others.

Backbiting is a sin:


In religious, backbiting is considered a sin. Faith condemned it as the worst of sins as it destroyed the 'life of the soul' and provoked divine wrath. backbiting goes against the ideal of right speech.

When people backbite about you, just sit there like a boss and remember that you are getting there free good deeds while they get your costly sins.



Effects or Disadvantage of backbiting. 


backbite is leaving the province of Lord, punishment and leaving the circle of faith and The social consequences of it can be character assassination and defamation believer. 


  • weakening family and social relationships

  • promote anti-values. 

  • lack of dynamism and public health cited. 


They cause hostilities between people of the same household and between neighbours and relatives. They can decrease in good deeds and increase in evil ones and lead to dishonor and ignominy. Backbiting and slandering are shame and disgrace. Their perpetrator is detested and he shall not have a noble death.


Cause of gossip:


  • Fear

  • Feel part of the group

  • Belonging

  • Feel superior

  • Intimacy

  • Out of envy

  • Desire to work with others who carry their own weight. 

  • Out of boredom

  • Out of anger


How does gossips affects society:


  • Gossip and rumors can destroy a person's self-confidence. 

  • Affect their self-esteem. 

  • It also can lead to depression

  • Suicidal thoughts. 

  • Eating disorders. 

  • Anxiety. 

  • A host of other issues. 


Why do humans like to gossips:


Because it gives them a sense that they possess secret information about another person, which gives them a sense of power. People want to be seen as being in the know when it comes to the latest gossip about others. If knowledge is power, gossip is turbocharged power.


Ignore the backbiting at workplace.


  • It’s not your job to stop them from talking behind you but it’s your job not to let it affect. My life is obviously more interesting than yours.

  • If you cannot forbid backbiting, you must leave the gathering. If you stay you gather sinning.”

  • Maintain professional line to avoid unnecessary problems

  • Don't give chance to others to  show you down or use your information against you. 

  • Don't jump the gun every time you hear anything negative about yourself. 

  • Verify the source of your information. 


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